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20 March 2026 | Bournemouth | 8pm-2am

 Step into a world where shadows dance with desire and the night breathes with ancient power. 

Miss Mae Unleashed is the kink event to be at this Spring. 

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Some nights change you

Miss Mae Unleashed is an event where kink, sensuality, eroticism, and ritual coexist. 


Self-play, guided play, partnered exploration, and sensual ritual are all welcome. The focus is experience, connection, and transformation. 


Step into a world where shadows dance with desire and the night breathes with ancient power. 


On 20th March, in a private, luxurious loft bar in central Bournemouth, Miss Mae invites you to one of the largest kink-forward experiences the South Coast has seen in years. 


Step into a realm where elegance meets authority, and power takes on a sensual, intentional form.


This event is curated by Miss Mae, a distinguished Pleasure Dominatrix, renowned for her poise, precision, and unyielding command.


Her artistry blends intuition with structure, creating immersive encounters that transcend the ordinary. Miss Mae’s work explores the beautiful tension between control and surrender, inviting participants to embrace vulnerability, awareness, and transformation through the exquisite psychology of power exchange.


This first instalment—created in collaboration with Untamed Nights, Spicy Match, The Alchemy, and Up Your Street—embodies her signature:


Refined. Deliberate. Deeply human.


Every moment is crafted with intention: a symphony of sensation, ritual, structure, and surrender. A celebration of trust. A release into freedom.


Whether you come as an admirer, a participant, or a seeker of understanding, prepare to witness the commanding presence of Miss Mae and her coven in a transformative experience of dominance elevated to pure expressive art.

 

 

Lose yourself across multiple rooms, each with its own kink- and sex-positive atmosphere and experiences:

  • Intimate, seductive alcoves
  • High-intensity dance and performance floor
  • Luxurious lounging and voyeur areas
  • Calming aftercare spaces

Expect DJ-led rhythms, curated cocktails, immersive lighting, and a soundscape shaped by dark-feminine dominance, primal seduction, ritual, and feral luxury.


This is Twilight, meets True Blood, meets Vikings, meets Eyes Wide Shut.


A cinematic universe of dark magic, erotic tension, and unleashed myth.

Early Bird tickets

Early Bird: £25 per person (until midnight  31st January 2026)


Full Price: £30 person


No tickets sold on the door — advance booking only.


Everyone pays the same price — no matter your dynamic, identity, or relationship configuration.

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Official Rules, Code of Conduct & Coven Guidelines

Miss Mae Unleashed is a private, ticketed crossover play and kink event blending the adult lifestyle worlds of sexual and social exploration with more structured kink and fetish culture.


This is a curated, immersive space designed for freedom, intensity, connection, and pleasure - held within clear boundaries that protect safety, dignity, and consent.


By attending, you agree to uphold the following standards.

Entry and Admissions

• This is a pre-ticketed event only.
• No tickets are sold on the door.
• Entry is limited to approved ticket holders.
• Photo ID may be requested at any time.
• Strictly 18+.


Failure to comply with entry requirements will result in refusal without refund.

What “Crossover Play & Kink” Means

Miss Mae Unleashed blends:

• non-monogamous social and intimate play experiences
• Structured fetish and kink play (which may or may not include sexual content)


This means you may witness:

• Explicit sexual play and contact
• Structured power exchange scenes
• Impact, rope, restraint, and sensory play
• Nudity
• Dynamics that are intense but consensual


Some guests attend primarily for sexual connection.
Some attend for kink only.
Some blend both.

Not everyone is here for the same experience.
Be mindful. Be respectful. Do not interfere.

Fundamental Principles

This event operates under and follows the principles of:

Safe, Sane & Consensual (SSC)
Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)


Our core pillars:

• Consent
• Communication
• Boundaries
• Aftercare
• Respect
• Dignity


These principles apply at all times, without exception. 

Consent is Absolute

• Consent must be enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing.
• “No” is a complete sentence.
• Silence, hesitation, intoxication, or uncertainty = no consent.
• Consent may be withdrawn at any time.
• Always ask before touching.

• Intoxication invalidates consent.

Safewords

In kink and consensual sexual play, safewords are pre-agreed words or signals used to clearly communicate boundaries during a scene. They allow anyone involved to slow down or stop what’s happening immediately, without confusion, breaking role-play dynamics and without consequence.


Safewords are used to protect consent, safety, respect, and dignity. Even in scenarios that involve power exchange, pain, or restraint, everyone retains autonomy over their body and experience. 


A safeword ensures that consent is ongoing, active, and reversible at any moment. It reinforces trust - not weakness - and reflects mature, ethical play.


A common method is the traffic light system:

  • Green: Everything feels good; continue. 
  • Amber: Slow down, reduce intensity, or check in
  • Red: Stop the scene immediately. Remove any and all restraints. Safety is paramount. 


The traffic light system works because it is simple, universally understood, and allows for graded communication - not just “stop” or “don’t stop,” but clear, unambiguous and continual consent in real time.


At its core, using safewords is about mutual care. They honour the emotional and physical wellbeing of everyone involved, ensuring that exploration happens within a framework of trust, communication, and respect. adventure activities.


If anyone is found to not be using, or not adhering to safewords, they will be removed from the event. 

Wristbands

On arrival, guests will be offered a choice of Red, Orange, or Green wristbands.

These indicate how approachable you feel within the space and event.


They are a communication aid only.
They are not consent. Consent must always be verbal and explicit.

Guests may change their wristband colour at any time during the evening.


Green:

• Comfortable being approached
• Open to conversation and potential play
• Happy to be socially engaged

• Green does not equal automatic consent.


Orange:

• Open to conversation
• Prefer to initiate physical contact themselves
• Taking time to settle into the space
• Possibly observing before engaging

• Orange means approach respectfully and gently.


Red:

• Not open to sexual or play-based approaches
• May be here to observe, support, or enjoy atmosphere

• Red requires no explanation and must be respected.


Important clarifications:

• Wristbands reflect comfort level - not sexual availability.
• They do not override verbal consent.
• They do not guarantee interest.
• They are not to be challenged or negotiated.


Do not treat green as entitlement.
Do not treat orange as persuasion.
Do not treat red as a challenge.

Miss Mae's Coven Guardians

Our event monitors are known as Coven Guardians and are identifiable by a white wristband.


They are:

• Experienced in the adult lifestyle environments
• Have received additional training in safeguarding
• Vetted by Untamed Nights and/or Alchemy Encounters Ltd

They monitor:

• Consent standards
• Physical safety
• Emotional wellbeing
• Intoxication levels
• Rope and impact play safety
• Emerging conflict


They have full authority to:

• Pause or stop a scene
• Remove equipment
• Instruct behavioural changes
• Remove guests from the event


If a Coven Guardian intervenes, you must comply immediately.


The Coven Guardian team is led by Madam Maehem, Miss Mae’s brat.


Her professional background includes:

• Safeguarding adults and children
• Mental Health First Aid
• Psychological safety
• Informed consent frameworks
• Conflict resolution
• Risk management
• Neurodiversity awareness
• Health & Safety
• Advanced First Aid


Coven Guardians are present to ensure safety at Miss Mae Unleashed is structured, intentional, and informed.

Dress Code and Aesthetic

Guests are invited and encouraged to dress for the ritual.


Smart dress is the minimum standard expect

Fetish wear is welcomed.
Nudity is permitted and is to be expected within play spaces.

A cloakroom is available.
There are no dedicated changing facilities.

Please respect our neighbours and ensure nudity remains within the venue. 

Play Spaces and Photography

• Sexual and fetish play is likely to occur in designated areas.
• Crossover between sex and kink may occur within play spaces.
• Do not interrupt scenes - only Coven Guardians may intervene.

• The social area is not a formally designated play area. Should you engage in play in the social area, please respect guests around you and be mindful of their wristband colours. Coven Guardians may ask you to move elsewhere. 


Photography:

• Permitted in social areas only.
• Strictly prohibited in play areas.

• A professional photographer will be in attendance to take portrait photographs of guests who wish to have a memento of the event. This will be in a designated space at the beginning of the event. 

Substances and Intoxication

Whilst Miss Mae is a private event, we have a zero tolerance on the following:


• Illegal substances
• Legal highs
• Poppers


Anyone found in possession, or under the influence will result in removal from the event and where relevant, involvement of the police. 


Whilst alcohol is being served at this event as part of a fully licensed cocktail bar, over-intoxication is not acceptable. The venue and Coven Guardians have the right to refuse service and remove you from the event and venue. We will happily assist you into a taxi where needed.

Venue Stafff

Venue staff are present to work - not to play.


Do not:

• Proposition them
• Touch them
• Make sexual comments
• Attempt to involve them in play
• Intimidate or pressure them


Any misconduct toward venue staff will result in immediate removal.

Respecting the Venue and Equipment

The venue for this event is a private, licensed cocktail bar and club. By attending the event, you are representing members of the adult lifestyle community and are expected to treat the space, furniture and equipment with due care and attention.


You are welcome to bring adult toys with you to the event. You remain fully responsible for them at all times. The venue, Untamed Nights or Alchemy Encounters Ltd. take no responsibility for your personal belongings. If you wish to bring electrical items please contact us in advance. 


The following principles apply:

• Treat equipment and furniture with care, cleaning before and after use and reporting any breakages immediately.
• Inspect toys before use.
• Do not use toys that do not belong to you without explicit consent.
• Do not use equipment you are unfamiliar with.
• Coven Guardians may intervene if they feel play is unsafe or disrespectful to the venue.

Rope and Restraint Play

In kink and consensual sexual exploration, rope and restraint/bondage play involves the intentional use of restraints, such as rope, cuffs, or ties, to create physical restriction, sensation, or aesthetic expression. It can range from light, playful restraint to more intricate rope artistry and power exchange dynamics. 


At its core, rope and bondage play must be grounded in clear communication, informed consent, and mutual respect. Because restraint limits movement and sometimes speech, prior discussion of boundaries, physical limitations, and emergency procedures is essential. Safety knowledge, including circulation checks, nerve awareness, and quick-release tools, protects both physical wellbeing and emotional dignity. 


The following code of conduct applies:

• Stay within your skill level.
• No full or partial suspension.
• No neck rope or airway restriction.
• Monitor circulation continuously.
• Stop immediately if numbness, tingling, swelling, dizziness, or confusion occurs.
• Be aware of surrounding guests. 

Impact Play

Impact play refers to the intentional use of physical striking, such as spanking, paddling, flogging, or other forms of controlled impact, for sensation, power exchange, or emotional intensity. It can range from light, playful contact to more intense, negotiated experiences. 


Like all kink, impact play must be rooted in clear communication, informed consent, and mutual respect. Participants discuss boundaries, desired intensity, health considerations, and aftercare in advance. Knowledge of safer striking areas, and avoidance of vulnerable areas, is essential for physical safety. 


Impact play is not about causing physical harm. It is about trust, dignity and the  conscious exchange of power within a framework of care. 

Prohibited Activities

The following kink and fetish activities are not permitted during Miss Mae Unleashed:


• Blood play
• Watersports

• Rope suspension
• Scat play
• Breath play
• Knife or blade play
• Weapons


Wax play requires prearrangement with the organisers to protect the venue and equipment. 

Language and Respect

 

Degradation within consensual dynamics must not cause harm to others.


The following will not be tolerated:

• Racist language
• Homophobic language
• Transphobic language
• Ableist slurs
• Misogynistic abuse


Coven Guardians may stop play if language causes distress.

Mind and Body Awareness

Stop immediately if you experience:

• Dizziness
• Confusion
• Numbness
• Swelling
• Panic
• Emotional shutdown
• Dissociation
• Feeling unsafe


Your wellbeing comes first.

Health Conditions That Increase Risk

Bondage, restraint and impact play may be unsafe with:

• Cardiovascular conditions
• Blood clotting disorders
• Diabetes
• Neuropathy
• Joint instability
• Recent injury
• Pregnancy
• Seizure disorders
• Trauma history

If unsure - do not play.

Aftercare is non-negotiable

Aftercare refers to the intentional physical and emotional care given to one another once a scene has ended. 


Because kink can involve intense sensations, power exchange, vulnerability, or adrenaline, the body and nervous system often need time to regulate and settle. Aftercare helps participants transition safely and respectfully back to their everyday state.


Physically, aftercare might include things like water, blankets, gentle touch, tending to marks, or simply resting together. Emotionally, it can involve reassurance, affirming words, quiet presence, laughter, or space - depending on what each person needs. 



Some people experience an endorphin drop (“sub drop” or “top drop”) hours or days later, which can bring unexpected emotional lows. Thoughtful aftercare and follow-up check-ins help protect wellbeing and maintain trust.


At its core, aftercare is about respect, dignity, and responsibility. It acknowledges that vulnerability has been shared and that care does not end when the physical activity stops. Whether someone is dominant, submissive, or switching roles, everyone deserves to feel safe, valued, and emotionally held once intensity subsides.


Aftercare may include:

• Hydration
• Warmth
• Reassurance
• Emotional check-ins
• Quiet presence


Not acceptable:

• Walking away immediately
• Mocking vulnerability
• Ignoring emotional drop
• Belittling reactions


Aftercare is as important as the scene. A dedicated space in the venue will be provided for aftercare. Coven Guardians can assist you to the space if needed. 

Smoking

A smoking area will be made available in the designated third-floor area so that you do not need to change out of fetish wear. You may also smoke outside the venue, however, we do not recommend this as this may compromise the security and privacy of the event.

Statement of Liability and Assumption of Risk Agreement

Nature of the Event

Miss Mae Unleashed is an adults-only, private, ticketed crossover event combining:

• Adult lifestyle social interaction
• BDSM/fetish kink play
• Explicit sexual activity
• Power exchange dynamics
• Nudity


Attendees may witness or participate in activities that involve physical contact, restraint, impact play, rope bondage, and other consensual kink practices.


Attendees attend voluntarily and of their own free will.

Assumption of Risk

Attendees acknowledge that by attending such an event:


• BDSM, fetish play, rope, and impact activities carry inherent physical and emotional risks.
• Sexual activity carries inherent physical risks.
• Even when conducted under Safe, Sane & Consensual (SSC) or Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) frameworks, injury is possible.


Attendees accept full responsibility for:

• Their physical health
• Their emotional wellbeing
• Their personal choices
• Their level of participation

• Their personal belongings


Attendees agree to play only within own competence and skill level.

Health and Fitness to Participate

By attending such an event, Attendees confirm that:


• They are physically and mentally fit to participate.
• They are not under the influence of illegal substances, legal highs, poppers, or excessive alcohol.
• They have disclosed relevant medical conditions to play partners where appropriate.

• They understand that certain health conditions (including cardiovascular conditions, blood disorders, neurological conditions, joint instability, pregnancy, recent surgery, trauma history, etc.) may increase risk.

• They take personal responsibility for your own sexual health, contraception and barrier methods, and communicating that with those they play with.


Participation is at the attendees own discretion.

Consent & Personal Responsibility

As an adult, a UK citizen abiding by UK law, and as an attendees at this event:

• Consent is their own responsibility to obtain and maintain.
• Wristbands indicate approachability only and are not consent.
• Safewords are mandatory and are communicated clearly.
• Consent may be withdrawn at any time.

• Attendees are responsible for stopping play if they feel unsafe, unwell, or uncomfortable.

Coven Guardians & Event Authority

Attendees must to comply immediately with instructions from Coven Guardians (white wristbands), organisers, and venue management.


Failure to comply may result in removal without refund.

Photography and Privacy

Attendees agree not to photograph or video any individuals or scenes in play areas.


Attendees accept responsibility for your own privacy choices in social areas.


• Attendees must not share photos, videos, names, identifying details, or descriptions of attendees on social media or online platforms without their explicit prior consent. This includes tagging, facial images, distinctive clothing, tattoos, or recounting identifiable interactions.

Release of Liability

Except in cases of gross negligence or unlawful conduct, in which statutory rights remain valid, to the fullest extent permitted by UK/EU law, Attendees release and hold harmless:

• Untamed Nights
• Alchemy Encounters Ltd
• Miss Mae
• Madam Maehem
• Coven Guardians
• Venue owners and staff


From liability for any outcomes resulting from consensual participation including:

• Personal injury
• Emotional distress
• Loss or damage to personal property

Liability and Impact Play:

Under UK law, impact play exists within a complex legal framework. While consensual sexual activity between adults is lawful, the law does not automatically recognise consent as a defence to actual bodily harm. Following cases such as R v Brown (1993), it was established that a person cannot legally consent to the infliction of actual bodily harm or more serious injury for sexual gratification. In the real world, this means that if impact play results in injuries that amount to more than minor bruising, for example, there could be potential criminal liability, even if all parties consented. As a result, those engaging in impact play in the UK are advised to prioritise informed consent, clear communication, and risk awareness, and to understand that the legal system may draw its own boundaries around what level of harm is considered lawful. 

Removal Policy

• Rule breaches
• Intoxication
• Harassment
• Disrespect toward staff or guests


May result in immediate removal without refund. Behaviour resulting in removal may also result in permanent bans from the venue and/or future events.

By attending Miss Mae Unleashed, attendees confirm that they have read, understood, and agree to the code of conduct. 


For full transparency, this code of conduct and statement of liability is consistent with the event organiser's and sponsor's public liability insurance and is intended to protect and safeguard all who attend. This is available on request in alternative forms to support accessibility of needs, and will be in print during the event. 


Above all, the organisers wish to ensure that the event upholds their stated values and ethics, is compliant with UK/EU law,  and is enjoyable and inclusive for all who attend.


Participation is voluntary.
Exploration is intentional.
Responsibility is personal.

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